When I was a kid, sometimes I went to stay with my grandmother.
There was no Nintendo or anything remotely like it -- in fact, I don't even think the TV was ever on when I was there. Except maybe for the evening news. Maybe. There was no such thing as passive entertainment.
This is because my grandmother was a Master Putterer.
She lived by herself when I knew her, my grandfather had died rather early leaving her a widow in her 60's.
We'd get up and make our beds, then we'd make breakfast and clean that up. Then we'd go out in the vegetable garden and pull some weeds, or plant things, depending on the time of year. Then we'd rake, or sweep.
Then we'd go get groceries, often on foot. Or if Easter was coming up we'd go to the department store ("Bullocks, I don't trade at Weinstocks") to get me an Easter sweater.
Later we'd go to a convalescent home and she would putter from one resident to the next, visiting and straightening lap robes and trimming hair and such.
Then we might go home and make cookies, or butter cream eggs, or some such thing. This involved licking of bowls and eating anything remotely "extra." "That's what it's for," she would say.
The days were filled with these sorts of things. There was never "nothing to do." There was a front porch to paint, or a lawn to mow, or someone to visit - like Nellie Goodenough, who was 101 when I met her. She took a long time to get to the front door after we knocked, but once she made it, the visit was a lot of fun.
And, I always had some art supplies handy and could draw whenever there was a break in the puttering action.
Puttering is an activity most people assign to elderly people in their front yards. But I think it's an important skill to cultivate. The fact is, there is never "nothing to do," we just expect to be entertained all the time.
I think I got the puttering habit from my grandmother -- I'm always cruising around doing random things, to the amusement of my family. I will go out and fuss with the pool equipment in a rainstorm. I like to see things from the roof. Not in a rainstorm.
Here's what puttering is: It's engaging with your environment. You cruise around, you interact with things and people, and you keep your environment alive. You don't just occupy one couch or chair or room, you circulate.
Kids do this naturally. In fact, they "engage" with the environment even when you'd really rather they didn't.
Here are my tips for Good Puttering:
1. Don't have a Big Goal. This is not about finishing something, it's about keeping things moving forward. A little of this, a little of that, and pretty soon the garage looks better or the car is clean or your books are organized.
2. Don't think in terms of Chores. That's the wrong attitude. If you see something to do, just do it. Enjoy the satisfaction of of just being present and taking care of things.
3. Don't putter fast. The whole point is to be methodical, not speedy. The clock is the enemy of puttering.
4. Find someone nice to putter around with you.
There. Maybe you know a Master Putterer yourself, who can give you some more tips. Or better yet, you can just go putter together.